{"id":243,"date":"2021-06-02T08:32:00","date_gmt":"2021-06-02T08:32:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/theunsungleader.com\/?p=243"},"modified":"2021-06-02T08:32:01","modified_gmt":"2021-06-02T08:32:01","slug":"game-over","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/theunsungleader.com\/index.php\/2021\/06\/02\/game-over\/","title":{"rendered":"game over."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-very-dark-gray-color\">Humans should come with progress bars installed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-very-dark-gray-color\">I love video games. Madden, 2K, COD, Final Fantasy, whatever.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-very-dark-gray-color\">I\u2019m not very good at any of them&#8230;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-very-dark-gray-color\">Though I had a good run between 2003-2005 where I was playing with Vick on Madden and I couldn&#8217;t be stopped.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-very-dark-gray-color\">Anyway, a lot of times I see the world through the lens of video games.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-very-dark-gray-color\">If we could find a way to install energy level progress bars on people, we would be in so much better shape as leaders.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-very-dark-gray-color\">I remember getting a call from my Duty Chief at 1930 about a call from my mentor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-very-dark-gray-color\">His message to me was \u201cDedication check, unsatisfactory\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-very-dark-gray-color\">I laughed and hung up the phone and almost immediately began to feel slightly guilty for not being at work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-very-dark-gray-color\">After really thinking about it I began to understand how completely stupid his notion was\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-very-dark-gray-color\">My impact as a leader is predicated on how many hours I remain at work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-very-dark-gray-color\">Get to work before the sun comes up and leave after it sets.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-very-dark-gray-color\">These were my examples.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-very-dark-gray-color\">Not actively contributing to anything except a pristine inbox.&nbsp; Merely being a \u201cpresence\u201d just in case something went down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-very-dark-gray-color\">Not purposeful or intentional, just existing in the workspace.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-very-dark-gray-color\">I watched the leaders before me expend every bit of energy they had with a purposeless existence at work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-very-dark-gray-color\">It is the leader&#8217;s job to facilitate an environment where leaders are cultivated.&nbsp; With the leader never allowing others to lead, the environment becomes stale and growth becomes stifled.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-very-dark-gray-color\">There is a point where you\u2019re putting so much of yourself into work that your impact becomes counterproductive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-very-dark-gray-color\">While you have convinced yourself you\u2019re working hard, the reality is that you\u2019re merely working long.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-very-dark-gray-color\">Why? To prove a point? To show that you\u2019re the man\/woman?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-very-dark-gray-color\">We just wind up diminishing that energy bar to the point where it will never fully regenerate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-very-dark-gray-color\">And when we truly need those energy reserves for something significant where success requires us to be at our best\u2026&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-very-dark-gray-color\">we will fail.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-very-dark-gray-color\">When the unexpected occurs, we are reacting just like everyone else, instead of responding.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-very-dark-gray-color\">It is when that energy bar is low when all of the cracks in our foundation are magnified.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-very-dark-gray-color\">The unresolved anger problem that was easily managed at a higher energy level, overtakes your will when you are low.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-very-dark-gray-color\">As humans we all have imperfections but when we fail to manage our energy levels, especially as leaders, those imperfections become liabilities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-very-dark-gray-color\">Liabilities get people killed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-very-dark-gray-color\">In the game when I don\u2019t rescue the princess, I can turn off the game and try again\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-very-dark-gray-color\">This isn\u2019t a game and there is no princess but there is no pause button, we must always be ready.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-very-dark-gray-color\">At 1930, I was home with my wife and daughters laughing and dancing ensuring my energy bar is fully recharged because if I get a call at 0330 I need to be ready to respond, not react.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-very-dark-gray-color\">Take care of yourself and recharge your energy bar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-vivid-red-color\">&#8220;Well oiled machines don&#8217;t grind&#8221;     -Phontigallo<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Humans should come with progress bars installed. 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